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What's in it for Me ?

1. We help our members sift though a sea of (mostly bad) Information and advice: We weed through all of the so-called gurus to help members figure out what is good and what is a waste of time and money.

2. We are considered the key to the city in every place we have a presence. This means you can make friends, get access into nightclubs, get wings, and find out goings if you are new (or a veteran) of that city.

3. Content: We have world-class speakers in every monthly meeting, we give you informational newsletters, we facilitate classes with some of the best in the field at a fraction of the normal cost, and our forum contains the wisdom from those that have been there and done it before.

4. We are a community of like-minded people with high standards and life balance. We are all genuinely setting aside ego and working to improve our lives. There is no better context for networking, creating mentor relationships, and building life-long friendships. To help create this sense of community, we host roundtable discussions, "meet & greets", and other facilitated events.

5. We provide one-on-one and small group coaching that is based on your individual needs. Rather than teach a method, we help you formulate your personal goals and then manage those goals so that you are where YOU want to be. We do this out of love, not love for money, and our students experience the difference in results.

What makes you so different than other similar organizations?

We offer meetings and virtual meetings about every other month at modest cost, extended seminars are modestly priced, roundtable audio downloads from the web site every quarter, video downloads of speakers, community events to facilitate meetings, supportive friendships and camaraderie. We secure the top speakers in the community and we are one of the oldest, most successful organizations of our type in the world. We offer personal coaching, a long term structured program that focuses on individual feedback, goal integrity and with that, assignments and lessons.

What are the classes and seminars all about?

Our classes and seminars are a specialized hybrid of the full day or weekend seminar and workshops you see that run anywhere from $1,000 up to $5,000. Because of our relationships and ability to bring a large number of members and attendees, we are able to arrange similar type of these special events for only a fraction of the cost. Often this is available to our members for only one tenth the normal investment, or $200-$300 per event on average. We also do this in order for our members to have the opportunity to take advantage of the many styles, methodologies, perspectives and techniques that make the most successful get their extraordinary results.

Do you have an online forum? How is it run?

We have an online forum that is for members only. It has a general discussion board, as well as a section for more advanced members, product recommendations and testimonials, wing requests, health, wealth and relationships, to name a few. The forum is moderated according to our house rules which generally focuses on a non-advertisement and non-flaming policy.

If I'm not from New York, can I still take advantage of the same resources as the members?

Yes, although prices will vary. You can still get access to our quality and entertaining newsletters and announcements, our online products and resources, take advantage of our audio recordings from each roundtable and yes, even join us at our monthly meetings as a virtual attendee by logging in from your computer to view and hear the event live or afterwards, on your own schedule.

Why do you restrict non-local guys from being on your forum?

We are not just about building our personal influence and magnetism. We are also dedicated to building a community culture where you can get to know your neighbors, explore the local hot spots, learn from each other face to face and create friendships.

We understand that you want to participate with the local members now, but the fact is being geographically removed also makes it a much greater sacrifice for you to participate on the same level as our current members.

I have a friend who wants to join. Can they get any special treatment?

We will cut the processing fee in half and comp them for the next meeting after they have signed on as a member.

I'm a guy who just wants a wingman, how can this group help?

Become a member or a premium member in order to access our searchable member's database. Or you could post wing requests on our online forums. Members also have their phone numbers listed in their profile to easily connect with each other.

I just want the skills, why do you focus on community?

Our group is about relationships. With ourselves, with each other and with those we date. The strong sense of community creates an incredible geometric synergy that is only possible when people transcend the desire to serve only themselves. Even the most selfish who experience our community spirit often find that helping others is the best way to help themselves and that the value of the community depends on this spirit.

Do you offer personal coaching?

Yes, you can take one on one coaching or group coaching for both men and women. We have a 12 week program just for men that allows for up to two students and a la carte coaching for both beginner and intermediate. The a la carte coaching allows for up to 3 students at a time. See our full description here. Our new women-only coaching program will be announced in the future.

Tell me more about your long term coaching program? How much does it cost?

Our premier flagship program runs for 12 consecutive weeks. Each lesson covers one focus in-depth, such as your strengths and weaknesses, how to create attraction, strengthening confidence, working with groups or getting to the second date for example. As one Eastern philosopher wisely observed, "if I want to teach you nothing, I teach you everything." 

The bottom line is there's a difference between understanding and execution and the learning process must be taken one step at a time. Please click here to find out more details on your future experience.

How can I be an instructor?

We have an instructor program designed to evaluate your current level of skill, potential ability to teach, organizational skills as well as your OWN coachability (i.e. ability to follow direction). If we take you on, you will then go through an educational process to ensure our members and students each receive a reliably extraordinary experience. Please contact us at admin@vibesociety.com in order to be considered.

I'm not very social. I don't really talk to girls. What can you do for me?

We've had guys like you who've come into our group without social skills, but had a burning desire to improve and put as much time and energy as was necessary to overcome and learn to be socially successful. While we recommend having a balanced life, sacrificing a large part of your time, energy and focus is appropriate to get to a point where you can develop the social intelligence that is a necessary foundation to being an attractive man. After that, the skills to manage the male and female dynamic are straight forward.

I love what your group has done for me and I want to give back. How can I help ?

Right now, we have a small handful of volunteers who believe in our mission and have decided to step up and contribute in their own way to the community. Current functions include: recruiting intermediate members, web program and design, running roundtable events, running community events, securing high level speakers, in-field coaching, project management and multimedia. If you have something you believe is special enough to contribute, don't hesitate to step up and start a conversation with us right away. admin@vibesociety.com

I want to sign up my youngest child. How do I go about this?

You must be at least 18 years old to become a member.